Kenneth - it all makes sense but there's a limited to what we can advise you on. For example we can't advise you on what you should do but we can tell how to apply to update the register(s) once you have decided on next steps.
See PG 24 for the guidance we can provide -
Practice guide 24: private trusts of land - GOV.UK
Land registration is complex, designed to protect legal and financial interests in property. There can be significant consequences for any error. Please consider seeking legal representation. Before making an application without legal representation, It is important to
consider the benefits of using a conveyancer.